Serious question: does "not feeling like a man/woman" mean anything more than the individual doesn't fit the gender stereotypes? I never assumed that men and women did or should fit the stereotype, but how you get from not fitting the stereotype to not feeling like a man/woman... What is a man/woman meant to feel like??? I never assumed that there was anything in particular that a man or woman felt like, however you felt was what being a man/woman felt like. (From someone (in the queer alphabet but not trans) who clearly doesn't get the whole trans thing... Gender liberation was my thing, and I'm appalled by the reification of gender stereotypes by trans ideology.)